As a man, the truth is that as time progresses, you will realise it is much easier to survive alone than with a woman.

Yes, a woman is naturally designed to be your helper but not all women are fit help you. Many men today are carrying oversize, other men are carrying undersize, a non supportive woman in your life is a square peg in a round hole.

For many men today, their lives become very complicated in lot of ways the moment they decided to get themselves attached to women.

Several men are living miserable live today, in lack and poverty not because they have no sources of income but because they're with the wrong women in their lives.

Your only saving grace is getting yourself a supportive woman. It is easier living life with a supportive woman than living it alone as a man.

As a wise young man, there's a level you build yourself to in life where you need to start finding or searching for her, the right woman. It is at that early stage in life when you're not financially there yet that you can find a real woman.

Find that supportive lady for you early in life and then proceed on building your purpose and making the money. The thought of coming to wife her up, the thought of giving her a comfortable life, the thought of you giving your future children a good life, the thought of living comfortably as a family man will all act like strong driving force for you to succeed.

Having a sure woman by your side as you're building your life keeps you focused on the goal, your purpose, her support is important.

As a young woman in the life of that man who has found you and now building for your future together, build with him, support him, create for him the needed peaceful environment he needs to thrive or succeed.

It hurts a man when he thinks he has found his own sure woman in you and he's building and planning to settle with you only to discover that while he's busy working hard for your mutual interest, building a life for you both, you were there flirting, lazing around, failing exams, partying, billing him, and cheating on him.

It is not enough to be with a man for many years, the question is how were you there with him? respectfully, supportively or disrespectfully and unsupportively?

It is only that woman who stayed commitedly, loyal, faithfully, respectfully, supportivly, that deserves a place with him at the table when his jollof rice is done.